“Hey, what’s that?” My husband suddenly noticed the Pokemon writing decorations on our living room wall…ummm, they’ve been there for the last 5 days. And these are not little decorations. They are about one foot high, stretches about 5 feet across, tacked on the front wall immediately facing you when you enter the room. And he’s been going into that room everyday, several times a day, day in and day out, since those decorations has been up. And 5 days later he noticed! Amazing!
And I wonder why he doesn’t notice when I get a hair cut!
I am actually very thankful that my husband doesn’t notice things. I rather him be oblivious then knitpick every little things. That would drive me nuts because I am not a detailed person. I dated someone who noticed everything. At first I thought it was nice that he noticed the way I’m dress or my hair cut. But he would also notice every little flaw, and was hypercritical.
There is a good and bad side to every trait. So look at the other side of the coin before you think the grass is greener on the other side.
October 20th, 2009 at 4:02 pm
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