When you see someone with stuff in their teeth, the big question is, do you tell them or not??
Imagine feeling confident because your hair looks great. At the end of the day, you realize no one told you that there’s green stuff stuck in your teeth. All day you were thinking how everyone must be admiring your hair when they’re actually thinking how you need to floss.
It would be an act of kindness if someone had told you what you could not see for yourself.
Recently my daughter pointed out a flaw in the way I treat people. I didn’t realize that my actions were sending a wrong message. I am so glad she told me, so that from now on, I shall be conscious to correct that.
We need to help each other by pointing out each other’s blindspots. It’s an act of love.