{"id":1062,"date":"2010-01-01T22:32:40","date_gmt":"2010-01-02T06:32:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.katylee.com\/blog\/?p=1062"},"modified":"2010-01-03T21:06:51","modified_gmt":"2010-01-04T05:06:51","slug":"2009-highlights","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/2010\/01\/01\/2009-highlights\/","title":{"rendered":"2009 Highlights"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My highlights for 2009:<\/p>\n<p><em>Opportunities to speak and meet nice people<\/em><\/p>\n<p>-I spoke at the Huntington Beach MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) group of about 60 women. How nice to see so many young moms fellowshipping together. I can totally relate to all the questions they asked. For me to give them answers now is easy. It&#8217;s much easier said then done when you are in the middle of frustrations with your kids. I&#8217;ve been there, and am glad for the opportunity to give them some encouragement and perspective.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; I gave 2 workshops at a parenting conference, one on &#8220;Parenting Kids in the Age of the Internet&#8221;, and the other on &#8220;Keeping Teenage Kids in Church.&#8221; I was glad to see quite a few dads attending, showing their commitment of priority to their family. The 180+ turn out for the conference was just about what we expected. Being this was the first time for such a conference in this area for Chinese churches, it was a great success.\u00c2\u00a0 We&#8217;ve been asked to hold another parenting conference this year, 2010.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; I spoke on the book of Ruth at the UCLA AACF (Asian American Christian Fellowship) Women&#8217;s Retreat. It was my daughter&#8217;s college fellowship group and she was one of the participants \ud83d\ude42 While I thought this would be a perfect opportunity to indirectly teach my daughter what I want her to know, I realize that I already taught her everything I wanted her to know. Her spiritual maturity is beyond mine when I was her age. I am very proud of her.<\/p>\n<p><em>Away from home<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; We took a family vacation to Japan! It&#8217;s very expensive for a family of 5 to go on a big vacation so we don&#8217;t get out much. But there isn&#8217;t much time left before my kids will be on their own.\u00c2\u00a0 We so decided to scrape and spend the money while we still can. It was a fantastic trip of both family time and new experiences. I <a href=\"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/2009\/08\/13\/japan-2009\/\" target=\"_self\">blogged about it previously<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; My husband and I celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary with a trip to Palm Springs. We were married in 1984 in a church in Pasadena, 2 young people who had no idea what we were doing. Twenty-five years later, I am still trying to figure out what life is all about. While in Palm Springs about 80 miles away from home, lo and behold, we saw a church friend at a restaurant at dinner time! I told my husband that it&#8217;s a good thing we weren&#8217;t having an affair. You never know who you might see, no matter where you are.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; We went down to Mexico for a one-day mission trip with our church people along with\u00c2\u00a0 several other churches. We woke up at 4am and came back at midnight. It was fun, a good experience, and I was very inspired to see God&#8217;s work in people who are so committed to serve the poor.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; My husband and I went to the Bay Area for my second cousin&#8217;s wedding, without our kids. We don&#8217;t often go places without our kids. But they had their own plans,. Why would they want to attend a wedding of someone they don&#8217;t know, and socialize with relatives some of whom they have never met? In fact, I hardly know the couple, other than the fact that we are related. But it was a good time, even a bit of dancing after the dinner.<\/p>\n<p><em>Changes in life stages<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; My son finished college! I am very proud of him, not just for academic achievements but for his positive attitude towards life, his spiritual awareness, and his drive to make an impact in the world.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; My youngest daughter started high school. She has to now start figuring out her academic path to take her towards her career goals. But at the same time, I remind her that academic and career success are not everything. &#8220;Don&#8217;t worry about your grades,&#8221; I tell her. But I know the reality of the competition to get into college these days. Challenging times for her.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; My other daughter is living in an apartment with 3 friends. From just barely adjusting to college life a couple of years ago, to now a junior living off campus, she is handling life well, doing all those things that I remember doing when I was in college. Good times!<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; I reached another &#8220;zero&#8221; age, and it&#8217;s not 30 or 40. At least it&#8217;s not 60, yet. My sister planned a surprise party for me, and I was thoroughly surprised! I had no clue&#8230;and I thought I was a person with good intuition and awareness&#8230;I think I count 3 surprise parties in my life, and each time I was truly surprised. So maybe I am pretty clueless afterall.<\/p>\n<p><em>Firsts<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; First time attending an OMF Conference (Overseas Missionary Fellowship). It motivated me to explore possibilities of going overseas when I retire, hopefully within 8 years. I am thinking I want to help out in an orphanage in Taiwan.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; First time serving as Missions Director at church. After 20 years of serving at our church in various capacities, this is my first time being on the Missions Committee. Since I don&#8217;t have any experience myself in oversesas missionary work, I felt a bit inadequate. But it&#8217;s been fun because I am always up for doing something new.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; First time attending a 50th wedding anniversary party. What a testimony of love and faithfulness.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; First time going through a study of a book with my 6 good friends. Several of the friends I&#8217;ve known for 15+ years, one I&#8217;ve known since college. But this summer was the first time we&#8217;ve had free schedules to actually meet weekly, consistently for 6 weeks. We are in the same life stages, and as our kids are older, we find more time for ourselves and our friends.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s all I can remember right now. I&#8221;m sure I&#8217;ve missed some good stuff. God is always faithful, no matter what our external circumstances may be at the moment. I am thankful for 2009, and for the life God has blessed me with.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My highlights for 2009: Opportunities to speak and meet nice people -I spoke at the Huntington Beach MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) group of about 60 women. How nice to see so many young moms fellowshipping together. I can totally relate to all the questions they asked. For me to give them answers now is easy. 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