{"id":3132,"date":"2019-10-28T17:28:00","date_gmt":"2019-10-29T01:28:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.katylee.com\/blog\/?p=3132"},"modified":"2019-11-01T11:48:17","modified_gmt":"2019-11-01T19:48:17","slug":"not-a-real-grandma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/2019\/10\/28\/not-a-real-grandma\/","title":{"rendered":"Not a real grandma"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We&#8217;ve been driving out to LA to see our granddaughter every Monday on my day off.<\/p>\n<p>Roundtrip driving time is over 2.5 hours. We try to be productive with that time &#8211; catching up, listen to Mandarin lessons on Youtube, bouncing off ministry ideas. But it&#8217;s still a long drive to me.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I know some people do this drive, and longer everyday. But we are not used to this kind of commute. I don&#8217;t know how people do it! It&#8217;ll take a few years off their life with this daily commute.<\/p>\n<p>We spend 4 hours with my daughter and granddaughter. I leave the house at 9:30am and get back 4:30pm. That&#8217;s 7 hours of my day off. Yes, I love seeing them, but it&#8217;s not a relaxing use of my day off.\u00a0 I cook lunch there in an unfamiliar kitchen. The drive makes me nervous, even with my husband driving, and he is a good driver.<\/p>\n<p>I wish they would move closer. They will probably do so eventually. In the meantime, I&#8217;m getting a Tesla just to feel safer with this drive. It&#8217;s suppose to be here in 6-8 weeks!<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t care about cars, I don&#8217;t care about the color. I don&#8217;t care if my new car gets scratched. It&#8217;s just a mode of transportation. I don&#8217;t care about having a Tesla. I just want a safe drive weekly to see my daughter and granddaughter and not get nervous during the drive. A plus is not to have to get gas.<\/p>\n<p>Before my granddaughter was born, Monday was a relaxing date with my husband. We&#8217;d go to Costco, go eat lunch, go to Lowe&#8217;s, go to Huntington Library. Find a park to walk around. I miss those relaxing times with a bit of exercise.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not a good grandma. It&#8217;s been hard for me to go see my granddaughter. I envy the grandmas at church whose grandkids live in close by suburbs. But then I suppose there are the grandma&#8217;s whose grandkids are hundreds of miles away&#8230;so I can&#8217;t complain.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We&#8217;ve been driving out to LA to see our granddaughter every Monday on my day off. Roundtrip driving time is over 2.5 hours. We try to be productive with that time &#8211; catching up, listen to Mandarin lessons on Youtube, bouncing off ministry ideas. But it&#8217;s still a long drive to me. Yes, I know [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[45],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3132","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-45"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3132","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3132"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3132\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3132"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3132"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3132"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}