{"id":3309,"date":"2020-08-25T19:59:12","date_gmt":"2020-08-26T03:59:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.katylee.com\/blog\/?p=3309"},"modified":"2020-08-25T19:59:12","modified_gmt":"2020-08-26T03:59:12","slug":"what-he-must-be-if-he-wants-to-marry-my-daughter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/2020\/08\/25\/what-he-must-be-if-he-wants-to-marry-my-daughter\/","title":{"rendered":"What He Must Be If He Wants To Marry My Daughter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I bought this book, by Voddie Baucham Jr. after hearing about it on a podcast, when my older daughter was starting to date. I skimmed it and didn&#8217;t think much of it. My daughter has been married for 3 years with a one-year old baby now, and I just read the book thoroughly.<\/p>\n<p>I should&#8217;ve read it thoroughly when I first bought it.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t let the title fool you. It&#8217;s not only for parents with a daughter. I highly recommend this to everyone &#8211; singles, married, at all stages of life.<\/p>\n<p>The book is relevant to show us biblical thinking about the family, about raising children, about launching children, and of course, about dating. It&#8217;s important for singles to read this to prepare themselves for dating and marriage. And it&#8217;s relevant for both men and women.<\/p>\n<p>After reading the book, I wish I had done more to prepare our son to be a man. By God&#8217;s grace, he turned out well. But we could&#8217;ve guided him better.<\/p>\n<p>Hence, parents of young children should read this so they can start early to raise their children towards being a godly man\/woman with the right view of manhood\/womanhood, and potentially as a husband\/wife, father\/mother.<\/p>\n<p>Also by God&#8217;s grace, my older daughter had a biblical view of dating and marriage, and married a godly man. Again, we could&#8217;ve done more to guide her and him.<\/p>\n<p>I have one more chance with my younger daughter. She&#8217;s not married yet. Again, by God&#8217;s grace, she&#8217;s a godly woman who has a biblical view of dating and marriage. I trust her, as I trusted my older daughter, to make a good choice of a godly husband.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s never too late though. We as parents of adult children still has influence on them. I have opportunities today to impact them in having a biblical view of marriage and parenthood. I&#8217;m going to buy them this book!<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s an easy read, it reads like I&#8217;m listening to Voddie talk.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve always been a Voddie Baucham fan. I learned a lot about family and family ministry from him.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I bought this book, by Voddie Baucham Jr. after hearing about it on a podcast, when my older daughter was starting to date. I skimmed it and didn&#8217;t think much of it. My daughter has been married for 3 years with a one-year old baby now, and I just read the book thoroughly. I should&#8217;ve [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[46,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3309","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-46","category-book-review"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3309","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3309"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3309\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3309"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3309"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/katylee.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3309"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}