This is from Dennis Rainey of Family Life. I signed up for his emails.

Not long after I graduated from the University of Arkansas, a female friend came to me for counsel. She was dating a young man who happened to be my best friend. And though she wanted to marry him, he was uncertain about committing to her.

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There is a Chinese phrase with no English translation that I know of.

My literal translation of the phrase is “diffused heart” or “scattered heart.”

My mom used to say that to us when we don’t want to study when school started in September. “You have a ‘scattered heart’ after the long summer vacation.”

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“Sorry for the last minute change of plans, mom.”

My son has his own apartment in college. Expecting him to come home for dinner tonight, I took a roast out of the freezer to prepare him some protein-rich-high-calorie red meat to fill his skips-breakfast-fast-food undernourished body.

In the afternoon, he told me he’s going back to school before dinner.

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